ruin my life

i hate when people say "_____ ruined my life" If your life was ruined you would be dead! how about "_____ made me realize how much more i had to offer and so i will respond positively to _____ and make a change in my life"???????

stop using word like "that destroyed me"... if you were destroyed you would be in pieces everywhere. How about saying "that didnt make me feel very well"


MEOW